We had a really magnanimous speaker at our workshop Friday. I listened closely to every word. He spoke about his relationship with his father that was very tumultuous. He said he became free and open when he let the anger and resentment go. I heard his words. I thought about them. I wanted to ask him this “What if that relationship continues to be toxic and painful, but they need you and really have no one else that is there to care for them? What then?”